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Georgia Tech 'rapebait' email writer apologizes

  • Writer of offensive fraternity email comes forward, issues apology in student newspaper
  • Attempt to ridicule misogynistic behavior 'in an immature and outrageous satire backfired terribly'
Georgia Tech 'rapebait' email writer apologizes

Frat rape victim: I watched my own nightmare

Frat rape victim: I watched my own nightmare

An open letter to frat brothers

An open letter to frat brothers

In response to an incendiary email that drew criticism from online sites and on-campus organizations alike, a Georgia Tech student and Phi Kappa Tau fraternity member has stepped forward and issued an apology in the school's newspaper.

The email, which instructed fellow fraternity members on "luring rapebait" and contained several references to using alcohol as a means of sexual persuasion, caught the attention of online communities and prompted Georgia Tech and Phi Kappa Tau to issue statements and conduct investigations into the incident. The national chapter of the fraternity also temporarily suspended the campus chapter.

The sender, identified as Matthew, says he was his chapter's social chair, a position he has since relinquished. In the apology, he claims the email was written as a joke, but should never have been written in the first place.

"Misogynistic behavior is everywhere online and unfortunately, my attempt to ridicule it in an immature and outrageous satire backfired terribly and in a manner I mistakenly underestimated," Matthew wrote in Technique, Georgia Tech's student newspaper. 

Matthew explained the origin of the email's central term, "rapebait," as a nickname that became an "internal fraternity joke."

"In retrospect, it was a nickname I should not have embraced but continuing to use the term was my fault. As a leader I should have put a stop to it in any reference," he wrote.

"I know I cannot fix all the damage I have done, but I will strive to become a better man as I work through this episode in my life," Matthew said.

Matthew ended his email, saying "I will conduct myself to more honorably reflect the ideals of Georgia Tech in the future."

The Georgia Tech community has been vocal over the incident. Judging from the comments on the Technique site, the apology seems to have been well-received, with many students even saying the incident was a "silly joke," or a "tempest in a tea pot."

Many campus organizations outside of the fraternity have condemned the note, and some students have commented on Technique's Facebook page saying they have "no sympathy" for the writer.

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